A family isn't determined by who is or isn't in it, or how it came to be, but by the bond that is created by the love that is shared.

Thursday, September 25, 2008

Earthquake Zone

I leave next week to pick up my son. My Son. Wow. That term, that context, it still doesn't seem real. I haven't been able to shake the "surrealness"of this process yet. When I'm in Kaz, it is a different world. What is happening there is not in any way connected to life back in Colorado. You know, sort of like what happens in Kaz, stays in Kaz? And while I am home between trips, it feels like Kaz, well it just happened in Kaz, but is not real here. My two worlds will collide very shortly. I'm expecting a magnitude 9 on the Richter scale, with severe aftershocks for weeks and months to come. But the house won't come tumbling down, just the intangible, and maybe partly tangible, world as I know it. The expectations, the emotions, the exhaustion, the elation. I'm ready. Rock my world, Brady boy!

So while I still have time to sit at the computer and play in the virtual world, here are some pics and (finally!) a video or two from the bonding days.

This is Kara and her daughter Sophia, along with Claudine and her son, Eliya, who celebrated their Gotcha Days last week. The mosquitoes had attacked them both the previous night. Poor babies! Both kids are also from Brady's baby room.




The woman in this video is Kara's Mom. Brady LOVED her! She could make him giggle and squirm all over. If you listen carefully you can hear him giggling as he is crawling. This is from the last (court) trip.





Here is Brady thoroughly enjoying chatting with the sofa throw during our bonding period in early August. He would usually start bouncing, but I was never able to catch it on video, which is kinda sad, because it was very cute.


7 comments:

Susan and Robert said...

Love the videos! Don't worry all the work is worth it!!!

Kelly and Sne said...

How cute! Yes, your world is about to be rocked! Enjoy!

Angela said...

Nice metaphor and what you write is so, so true - this feeling of disconnect between the 2 worlds. I can't wait until yours collide in the coming weeks :)!

The Casale Family said...

I"m so excited to hear his little voice. Your worlds will collide into one cuddly bundle of love. So excited!!!

Susan said...

oh my gosh, I love the videos! I miss having my camera that i sat on to post videos. My other "mac daddy" camera takes video, but they are like 37 mb's big..yikes.

but, i got a new canon elph online and pack mule is bringing it, so when, I SAID WHEN, (not if)we get together in almaty, i can get video of our cuties.

Braden is adorably adorable and i love the videos cuz he so comes to life.
Wow, what a good crawler he is! Esp for such a youngin-when i compare him to his future girlfriend, Leeza, who only just started crawling like he is and she's one! go Braden!! you're STUD!

you posted your emotions so well.it is surreal!! although my life has been in Kostanai the past 8 weeks, my life at home seems disconnected to me. Now that sean is gone and I don't have leeza yet, i'm "livin large" and going out, and having so much fun! I am just loving it here and I will be sure sad to leave. However, winter is coming and then that may change my tune. LOL!

I am making lists of stuff i need to get this week to make Leeza's homecoming a successful one....like, you know, diapers, food, soska's, a blanket for her crib, baby shampoo, stuff like that.

So excited though-worlds will be colliding for sure. I'm not sure who will rock who's world more...there rocking ours or us rockin theirs. Either way, we'll ALL be rockin--ROCKIN OUR BABIES TO SLEEP..finally!! :)

Patience, Prayers, and Persistence is PERSEVERING as we get closet to having OUR kids be truly OURS.
what a feeling....it's believing..I can have it all, and i'm dancing for my life...
take your PASSION, and make it happen!!

ok, sorry, i broke out into the flashdance theme song there for a minute

Love ya

Chris & Christy said...

Boy do I understand what you mean when you say it is all so surreal. You are SO right. I didn't leave Aqtobe, but just looking back, and remembering my time there, it seems that it was all a dream. Still being with Zahria seems to be a dream sometimes. I can't believe she is my daughter. Isn't it so crazy that we flew 1/2 way around the world, literally, to meet our babies? We stayed in a whole nother world (not really but it sure felt like it, and then again it somehow didn't feel so different than life here in the states too.)

I am SO happy for you Alysa. Congratulations to both you and Little Mr. Braden.

:) Safest Flight,
Christy and Z

Bev said...

Off you go Alysa for the flight of your life - what a high! I love that you know what a family can be - Brady and you are soo lucky to have each other.

Have a safe trip - I can't wait to read the next blog.

Much love and prayers,
Bev