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Thursday, October 2, 2008

Gotcha Trip

Between quarter-end at work and Merlin, my trip back to Kaz was postponed a couple of days. I was supposed to leave yesterday, 10/1, but am leaving instead tomorrow, Friday. Somehow, I've managed to be the least ready of all three trips this time around and am the proverbial chicken with its head cut off tonight. My house looks like a tornado hit it, but that is probably just how it will be anyway after Brady gets home, so what's the point? ;)

I'm a little worried about leaving my furbaby girl, Callie. She has never been alone and she already gets kinda weird when I'm traveling. She has also been looking for Merlin. It's heartbreaking. I know my wonderful petsitter, Kathy, will take good care of her, and several friends and neighbors will be checking in on her as well. Thank you to all of you! Makes it so much easier for me to concentrate on Brady when I know my other baby is doing okay.

I want to send a big Thank You to my good friends, Lyle and Elaine, for all their help and support thus far, while I'm gone again, and when I get home with Brady. I couldn't have done this without you! Also a big thanks to Dave and Kim for chauffering me to and from the airport, which is a good 45 minute drive from my house, several times now.

And last, but far from least, I want to send a huge thank you to my family, friends, and blog buddies who have provided such tremendous support during this entire process. It means the world to me and I know that I wouldn't have made it to this point without you. From the bottom of my heart: THANK YOU!!

A friend just reminded me that I am adopting during the month of October, which is National Adoption Month. How cool is that?! I'm not sure if my actual adoption date of record is the date I sign the paperwork (which will be 10/6) or the day the appeal period ended, which was yesterday. Either way, I'm excited to be going back to pick up my darling little boy and become a family.

It still doesn't seem real. With all the flurry of packing (ahem, still to do!), and checking and rechecking paperwork, and making sure I have all the gifts, and money, and baby stuff, and everything ready to leave for 3-4 weeks, the actual fact that this child is legally mine hasn't hit. I'm sure when I hold him again, and especially when we walk out of that babyhouse and I'm up all night for several nights in row, reality will slam me into the wall. I think I'm ready. I hope I'm ready. But ready or not, here we go! Catch you on the flip side of planet earth in a couple of days!

6 comments:

Sandi said...

Alysa
What a great post and I absolutely can not wait until your on the flip side. You're travelling the same day as Eileen, the day Susan takes Leeza back to the apartment and the day Angela has court. Man tomorrow is an amazing day among our bloggers.

Safe travels myfriend and I hope that you take the time to enjoy your son without lifes interruptions.

sandi

Susan said...

Alysa-safe travels my friend. you are so amazing!

and, believe me, when you get Brady, it will hit you that you are his mom.
Leeza and I have been hangin for 5+ hours and it's been awesome. It's like we've always been doing this...she is happy, i'm happy, and it's fun. She is tooling around in her walker (best 2100 tenge I spent) while Mommy blogs.

She's napped, did her business on the potty (number 1 and 2-she is brilliant i tell you!!), ate 2 yogurts, and a ton of crackers. :)

I screwed her schedule up already but she doesn't seem to care.

xoxooxox

see ya in almaty! i hope!

Patrick & Eileen said...

We're traveling to Kaz on the same day :) Wish we were going to be together.

I'm very excited for you and can't wait to see photos of you with Brady again. I look forward to hearing the latest.

We're nervous and not quite ready either. Wish we could relax a bit before we go but not likely.

I have to go. So much to do. Just wanted you to know that we're thinking of you!!

Take care and safe travels...
Eileen

Jennifer said...

Good luck!! I hope your travels are safe and smooth!

Can't wait till you're on the other side again!

The Casale Family said...

Can't wait to hear how things are with your SON! Send lots of photos and news.

Regina said...

I think by now you are probably somewhere over Europe. I know taking three trips must be over-the-top hard, but you're almost there and you'll never have to go back again! I'm thinking of you often and hoping your travels are smooth as silk.

I can't believe how long it has been since you and I were hanging out in that apartment together. Sometimes it seems like last week, and other times like last year. I wish I could be there to take photos as you walk out of that baby house with Brady for the last time, just as you did for me.

I'm so excited for you to finally be Brady's FULL TIME mom! No more visiting him in a big, blue room. It's surreal when you bring him into your apartment and sit him on the bed and just try to take it all in.

Please keep us posted asap. Give Brady a hug and kiss from all of us!